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You don't get a reward for being a good guy. Just like you apparently don't get a husband for being a good woman. I don't think a dude is REALLY a good guy if he knows he's not ready to commit and still keeps messing with women just for sex. Why not just take a COMPLETE break (sex included), if you're really going through something that requires a break. Sure, it's hard, but good men don't shy away from something just because it's hard (except LOVE apparently. ZING!). You've got to understand that you're not being responsible acting as if you're feeling a girl and then being SURPRISED when she falls for your amazing self. Sorry, but you can have a reward when you're doing the right thing, which y'all know you aren't. That's my opinion, anyway.
@WisdomIsMisery says:
August 29, 2011 at 10:14 am
Ok.
My recent post First Draft: Maybe I Expect too Much From Love
keisha brown says:
August 29, 2011 at 4:14 pm
exactly.
aren't 'good women' told being a 'good woman' doesn't mean you deserve anything?
we all need to stop thinking that any one is owed anything.
be honest with yourself and the rest will follow. (in an ideal world at least)
48. says:
August 29, 2011 at 11:08 am
"Yeah….ummm, no"
really though? If you're emotionally unavailable, what exactly are your reasons for dating?
My recent post Breeding style
Dating a Separated Man
10 Online Dating Tips: The Dos and Don'ts According to the Pros
She Said/He Said: Is Chivalry Dead?
Why Dating in LA is Different From Dating Anywhere Else
10 Tips for Finding A Spring Fling
Why Are So Many Baby Boomers Dating?
Is Faith a Deal Breaker?
High School Dating & The Fear Of Rejection
Advice for Dealing with the Pre-Teen Pressure to Date
What are the Guidelines for Tween Dating?
What Does It Mean If Your Boyfriend Is Always Cheap?
Why Some Things Are Better Left a Mystery
You don't get a reward for being a good guy. Just like you apparently don't get a husband for being a good woman. I don't think a dude is REALLY a good guy if he knows he's not ready to commit and still keeps messing with women just for sex. Why not just take a COMPLETE break (sex included), if you're really going through something that requires a break. Sure, it's hard, but good men don't shy away from something just because it's hard (except LOVE apparently. ZING!). You've got to understand that you're not being responsible acting as if you're feeling a girl and then being SURPRISED when she falls for your amazing self. Sorry, but you can have a reward when you're doing the right thing, which y'all know you aren't. That's my opinion, anyway.
@WisdomIsMisery says:
August 29, 2011 at 10:14 am
Ok.
My recent post First Draft: Maybe I Expect too Much From Love
keisha brown says:
August 29, 2011 at 4:14 pm
exactly.
aren't 'good women' told being a 'good woman' doesn't mean you deserve anything?
we all need to stop thinking that any one is owed anything.
be honest with yourself and the rest will follow. (in an ideal world at least)
48. says:
August 29, 2011 at 11:08 am
"Yeah….ummm, no"
really though? If you're emotionally unavailable, what exactly are your reasons for dating?
My recent post Breeding style